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It’s ok to need a break. In fact, I need one right now. | Better Than Newlyweds | Stacy Hudson

July 11, 2016 by Mrs. Hudson

It’s ok to need a break. In fact, I need one right now. Our sweet baby girl just woke up at 3 a.m. screaming from what seemed like a bad dream. I had finally just sat down to write my blog post for “Marriage Monday” but had not even hit a key yet when she woke up. Now, I don’t even know what I was going to write about. I feel like that a lot lately. Like I don’t even know. I don’t know what tomorrow holds, what next week will bring, and in reality most days I don’t even know what we will be having for dinner! I don’t like not knowing.

I used to be able to plan well. Ask anyone that knew me in Chi Alpha in college. I was the one with the color coded daily planner. I had my day planned down to each hour. Life was easier to plan then. I had classes, chi alpha events, and work. Those three things for the most part took up my days. Now, I don’t have any thing that structured to plan my days around. My husband’s work hours are never the same. So no planning there. Our daughter’s sleep hours are never the same. So no planning there either. I am left trying to fit a break somewhere between the two. It’s ok to need a break.

When my sweet husband is done working for the day I don’t want to just toss our kid at him and run for my life…well… maybe sometimes I do… but I can’t. I want to spend time with him as well. And he usually needs a bit of a break at the end of  a long work day. I get that, so, my break gets put off a little more.  What I am referring to as a “break” in that last sentence is simply a shower. But to me it is no longer “simply a shower.” It is 10-15 minutes of alone time. I can shut my brain off and take a break. I can pray, brainstorm, or try to plan without our sweet toddler trying to break the sound barrier with her very high pitched squealing screams in the background. However, sometimes she does sneak in the bathroom giggling as she is running from daddy to try and come tell me hello!

I don’t know the answer to me getting a break. But I do know that it’s ok for me to need a break (and you too!)… I also know that God knows we need rest. He knows that sometimes we are weary and burdened. 

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29, NIV

It says “I will chase you down in all your doings and all your stress and give you rest”…. ummmm no. He says “come to me” and ” I will give you rest.” We must make the choice to go to Him.  That is when we are guaranteed rest. And in order to find “rest for your souls” (which I think is what we all really long for) we must take His yoke and learn from Him. He is “gentle and humble in heart.” 

When life is stressful and you don’t even know what is going on… go to Him… and He will give you rest. It’s ok to need a break.

When life is making you stressed and rough around the edges… maybe even sharp… before you cut someone (emotionally) learn from Him and be “gentle and humble in heart” and you will find rest for your soul.  It’s ok to need a break.

How do you go to Him? How do you learn from Him? I would Love to hear from you in the comments below! I reply to every one because each of you matter to me. 

Filed Under: Better Than Newlyweds, Marriage Monday Tagged With: chi alpha, college, It's ok to need a break., life, Marriage Monday

When Good and Godly Things End | Stacy Hudson | Better Than Newlyweds

May 16, 2016 by Mrs. Hudson

Maybe you are nothing like me. Maybe you jump for joy when God calls you away from your familiar things and places you know. When good and Godly things end you celebrate right away, right? …No? If not… then you will understand what I am about to say.

Change is hard… even when you know God has greater things in store for you.

I have had lots of involuntary change happen in my life. And in the moment I would have told you that things made no sense and that I didn’t understand why it had to be like this. But God. God knew. And He had already prepared a way for me.

When Good and Godly things end… it is the start of something new.

In 1 Kings 17 the Lord has Elijah leave what was familiar and what he knew…not once…. but twice.

The first time it was because a drought was coming.

The Lord had already prepared a way for him to be taken care of and Elijah “did what the Lord had told him.”

1Now Elijah the Tishbite, from Tishbe[a] in Gilead, said to Ahab, “As the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, whom I serve, there will be neither dew nor rain in the next few years except at my word.” 2 Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah: 3 “Leave here, turn eastward and hide in the Kerith Ravine, east of the Jordan. 4 You will drink from the brook, and I have directed the ravens to supply you with food there.”5 So he did what the Lord had told him. He went to the Kerith Ravine, east of the Jordan, and stayed there. 6 The ravens brought him bread and meat in the morning and bread and meat in the evening, and he drank from the brook.

The second time was when the brook, that God had given him, dried up. 

The Lord had already prepared a way for him to be taken care of and “So he went to Zarephath.”

7 Some time later the brook dried up because there had been no rain in the land. 8 Then the word of the Lord came to him: 9 “Go at once to Zarephath in the region of Sidon and stay there. I have directed a widow there to supply you with food.” 10 So he went to Zarephath. When he came to the town gate, a widow was there gathering sticks. He called to her and asked, “Would you bring me a little water in a jar so I may have a drink?” 11 As she was going to get it, he called, “And bring me, please, a piece of bread.”

The widow he met had given up hope. She was literally out gathering sticks so she could make a last meal for herself and her son. But Elijah brought her hope. He had to leave the brook, his constant and familiar thing that God had first led him to, in order to bring her hope.

12 “As surely as the Lord your God lives,” she replied, “I don’t have any bread—only a handful of flour in a jar and a little olive oil in a jug. I am gathering a few sticks to take home and make a meal for myself and my son, that we may eat it—and die.”

13 Elijah said to her, “Don’t be afraid. Go home and do as you have said. But first make a small loaf of bread for me from what you have and bring it to me, and then make something for yourself and your son. 14 For this is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘The jar of flour will not be used up and the jug of oil will not run dry until the day the Lord sends rain on the land.’”

15 She went away and did as Elijah had told her. So there was food every day for Elijah and for the woman and her family. 16 For the jar of flour was not used up and the jug of oil did not run dry, in keeping with the word of the Lord spoken by Elijah.

Because of Elijah’s obedience to leave his familiar and safe spot by the brook hope was not all he gave the widow. Because he obeyed the Lord he was able to be used by the Lord in a greater way than he ever would have been had he stayed by the brook. And I don’t know about you but I wonder if the ravens would have continued to bring him food had he been disobedient to God.

17 Some time later the son of the woman who owned the house became ill. He grew worse and worse, and finally stopped breathing. 18 She said to Elijah, “What do you have against me, man of God? Did you come to remind me of my sin and kill my son?”

19 “Give me your son,” Elijah replied. He took him from her arms, carried him to the upper room where he was staying, and laid him on his bed. 20 Then he cried out to the Lord, “Lord my God, have you brought tragedy even on this widow I am staying with, by causing her son to die?” 21 Then he stretched himself out on the boy three times and cried out to the Lord, “Lord my God, let this boy’s life return to him!”

22 The Lord heard Elijah’s cry, and the boy’s life returned to him, and he lived. 23 Elijah picked up the child and carried him down from the room into the house. He gave him to his mother and said, “Look, your son is alive!”

24 Then the woman said to Elijah, “Now I know that you are a man of God and that the word of the Lord from your mouth is the truth.”

God used Elijah to bring new life to the widow’s son. I can’t help but think that this gave her new life as well! I am sure she was thankful he didn’t stay by the brook. Every time she looked at her son she would be reminded of God’s goodness, mercy, and power.

What do you see when you look at the Son?  Jesus Himself is the most “good and Godly” example I can think of and even His life had to come to an end in order to give us hope and to make new life available to us!

4 But God loves us deeply. He is full of mercy. 5 So he gave us new life because of what Christ has done. He gave us life even when we were dead in sin. God’s grace has saved you. 6 God raised us up with Christ. He has seated us with him in his heavenly kingdom. That’s because we belong to Christ Jesus.

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He had to leave His familiar and things He knew so that the Holy Spirit could come.

6 Instead, your hearts are filled with sorrow because I have told you these things. 7 But I tell you the truth, it is for your benefit that I am going away. Unless I go away,the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you.

When Good and Godly things end… it is the start of something new.

Filed Under: Better Than Newlyweds Tagged With: endings, good and Godly things, life

Meaningful Mother’s Day Gifts for Mom! | Stacy Hudson | Better Than Newlyweds

May 2, 2016 by Mrs. Hudson

Here are some gifts for Mom to go along with the massage and/or wonderful lunch you will be serving the mother in your life… you do plan on making sure she puts her feet up while you take care of her on Mother’s Day right? 😉 

Motherhood takes a lot of devotion… and caffeine! Why not bless mom with a one-month devotional (and some coffee) to help her draw closer to God? Meeke Addison – Author of Hard Truths (and a friend of mine!) shared with me a bit of the motivation and purpose behind Hard Truths.

“What if Jesus were enough? What if we thought, ‘not Jesus and but just Jesus?’ The call to follow Christ is still the call to choose Him above all, even above the gifts He gives. “Hard Truths” points to the truths in Scripture that few come to rest on. While we all want more security or possibly a better life, the promise of Christ is eternal security. When we understand what Jesus has done for us, rather than stumbling over what He requires, we will join with the Apostle Peter who refused to turn away. Peter powerfully expressed in John 6, as disciples turned away from Christ’s hard truths, we have nowhere else to go for you [Jesus] have the words of eternal life. “Hard Truths” is a one-month devotional for those unwilling to turn away.” Meeke Addison – Author of Hard Truths

Gifts for Mom

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Hard Truths
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Order Hard Truths with some coffee for mom here: 

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If the Mother in your life has suffered the loss of a spouse or someone close to her I highly suggest Laughing in the Dark by Chonda Pierce. We saw her performance and I laughed and I cried.  God moves thru her gift of humor and heals people… and is healing her as she adjusts to life without her husband.

Check it out and order here:

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Maybe Mom would prefer to be reminded that her Love as a mom never fails. I personally hand stamp each of the bracelets ordered. Visit my Facebook shop to order!

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Remind her also with this Flowy “Love Never Fails” T-shirt! Click here to order: Zazzle Shop

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Her children arise and call her blessed;
    her husband also, and he praises her:

Proverbs 31:28

 

Filed Under: Better Than Newlyweds Tagged With: Apostle Peter, Hard Truths, life, Mother's Day

BE FREE Part 2: Leave “it” in the tomb and “Come out!”| Better Than Newlyweds | Stacy Hudson

March 28, 2016 by Mrs. Hudson

Imagine the tomb… on the 3rd day… Jesus is no longer inside…but there are people in the tomb…Jesus has left His shroud on the table and walked out… but there are Christians still inside. People who believe Christ died for them but have yet to follow Him out of the tomb and start living in the freedom of His resurrection power. Jesus wants us to leave “it” in the tomb and “come out!”

These people exist. They are holding on to their sin, shame, hatred, depression, disappointment, rejection, fear, control, doubt, pride, greed, lust,  _____ (fill in the blank with your own)… they are holding on to “it”.  I have been one of these people. More than once in my life.

8 This is what the Lord says: “In the time of my favor I will answer you, and in the day of salvation I will help you; I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people, to restore the land and to reassign its desolate inheritances,9 to say to the captives, ‘Come out,’ and to those in darkness, ‘Be free!’ “They will feed beside the roads and find pasture on every barren hill. 10 They will neither hunger nor thirst,nor will the desert heat or the sun beat down on them. He who has compassion on them will guide them and lead them beside springs of water. 11 I will turn all my mountains into roads, and my highways will be raised up.  Isaiah 49:8-16

In order to be free we must leave “it” in the tomb and “come out!”

Jesus did not allow Himself to be beaten and killed on a cross for us to remain in the darkness of the tomb. He rose on the 3rd day to give us eternal life but also the freedom that comes with His resurrection power. The same power that rose Jesus from the dead lives in all believers. Yet, we are afraid to leave it and come out.

Why do you think Jesus left His shroud behind?

What bound Him in the past… held Him no more! The same is true for you. The Bible says that you are a new creation.

Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corinthians 5:17

Why do we hold on to the “old things” instead of doing what is proper with “things passed away” and leave them in the tomb? I think it boils down to fear. Fear of not having control. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the past being better than the future. Fear of being alone. The list could go on and on. If we are truly “in Christ” and have trusted Him with our souls and eternity… shouldn’t we trust Him and “come out” of the tomb?

We can’t truly BE FREE until we leave the “old things” behind and take hold of the “new things”. Jesus did His part. He died and rose again for our salvation and the same resurrection power that lives in Him lives in each of us. We do our part when we reach the point of Fully Releasing Everything… Everything…. and step out of the tomb with Christ FREE. 

Leave “it” on the table in the tomb with Jesus’ shroud  & walk out of the darkness and into the light and “BE FREE!”
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Filed Under: Better Than Newlyweds Tagged With: 2 Corinthians 5:17, be free, His Father, Isaiah 49:8-16, life

BE FREE Part 1: How do we remain free? | Better Than Newlyweds | Stacy Hudson

March 21, 2016 by Mrs. Hudson

If you have been in a church for any length time you have probably heard some of these sayings in reference to “being free”: (If you haven’t, I might suggest looking into a new church but I’ll save that for another blog post.)

“The truth will set you free!”

“Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom.”

“If the son has set you free you are free indeed!”

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free!”

These sayings/phrases come up in sermons and in worship songs so often that I wonder if some even realize they are straight of out Scripture? We use them in conversations… sometimes to only fill the silence. While we mean well… these words are powerful. We should be careful to recognize the power in these words and speak them with the authority God has given us thru Jesus Christ, His death on the cross, and resurrection from the grave!

“So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, ‘If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine: and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.’” John 8:32

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” 2 Corinthians 3:17

“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” John 8:36

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” Galatians 5:1

I want you to notice that 2 Corinthians 3:17 and John 8:36 deal with the supernatural side of freedom. It is a guarantee…a done deal…when the Lord, the Holy Spirit, or the Son sets us free. It is up to us to remain free! In order to remain free we must “continue” in His word according to John 8:31. We must also “stand firm” and not “let” ourselves “be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” as listed in Galatians 5:1.

“Slavery” (bondage, oppression, depression, shame, fear, ETC) is not just for the unbeliever. Note the word “again” in Galatians 5:1. We have been set free in Christ but that doesn’t mean the devil lowers his weapons and stops attacking us.

In order to remain free in Christ we must learn to use the Sword of The Spirit (His Word) against the devil. 

In order to remain free in Christ we must learn to use the Sword of The Spirit (His Word) against the devil.
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(I put that twice on purpose… it is THAT important!)

The next thing we must do is “stand firm” and not “let” ourselves “be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” as listed in Galatians 5:1.  How do we stand firm? The Bible tells us to “put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground” and to “Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist.”

10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

18 And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.

How do we not “let” ourselves “be burdened again by a yoke of slavery”? I don’t know about you but it helps me to know that I am not alone and that people are praying for me like it says in verse 18! This is why it is a priority in my life to go to a ladies Bible study every week. It is also something my husband makes a priority because he sees how much it helps our marriage as well. Is it always easy? No! Is it always worth it? YES!

If I am carrying a burden my Sisters in Christ are quick to help me carry it.

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Galatians 6:2
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They are also quick to help me stand my ground by literally standing with me in prayer. Each week we stand together and put the devil back under our feet where he belongs! After all, it is only by our permission that he ever got above our ankles! 

CLICK HERE TO READ PART 2.

Filed Under: Better Than Newlyweds Tagged With: be free, ETC, free, Free in Christ, freedom, God, life, So Jesus

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Hi, I’m Stacy!

I am married to the Love of my life... my Prince. We strive daily to have a marriage better than newlyweds. We want to know each other better than when we were first wed. We want to please God by serving each other. Marriage is so important as it represents the relationship between God and His church... we must protect it and fight for ours. Read More…

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